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You say something that your partner disagrees with. He/She

	Ask you for your opinion
	Makes fun of you and calls you "Stupid!"
	Slaps you and tells you to shut up

You are eating out with your partner. He/She

	Discusses with you where to eat
	Criticises every suggestion you make
	Decides on his/her own where and what to eat

You want to go out with your friends. Your partner

	Tells you to be safe and have a good time
	Forces you to make a choice between your friends and him/her
	Confines or restrains you from leaving

Your partner does not like the gift you bought for him/her. He/She

	Tells you his/her opinion but appreciates your thoughtfulness
	Puts you down for your bad taste
	Throws the gift away or at you

Your partner sees you talking to a member of the opposite sex. He/She

	Smiles and waves
	Turns hostile and insists on leaving with you right away
	Grabs you by the arms and drags you away, accusing you of flirting

You aren't home when your partner calls. He/She

	Mentions that he/she called earlier
	Gets upset and demands to know waht you're doing and who you're with
	Warns you to let him/her know your whereabouts in future

Your partner makes a mistake and you point it out to him/her. He/She

	Admits he/she is wrong
	Blames you for all his/her problems
	Punches or throw things on the floor

You and your partner are fooling around but you don't want to have sex. He/she says

	"That's ok, I understand."
	"If you love me, you will do this for me."
	"Well, you've got me excited. You must have sex with me."

What would your partner do if you told him/her you were thinking about breaking up with him/her? He/she

	Asks if you'd like to talk about it
	Calls you names and tells you how lousy you are
	Refuse to listen when you want to talk about your feelings and threaten to hurt himself/herself or you if you don't stay with him/her

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You break up with your partner. He/She

	Is upset but respects your decision
	Spread rumours about you
	Calls your handphone many times just to get back at you

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